fix: close stream adaptive gaps and switch notify to stario v0.1.1

- make stream fast path honor adaptive soft payload limits end-to-end
  - split oversized fast-stream payloads into sequential frames before batching
  - use adaptive soft cap when encoding stream batch payloads
  - move timeout-like error detection into production code for adaptive tx
  - tune notify FrameReader read size explicitly to avoid throughput regression
  - drop local stario replace and depend on released b612.me/stario v0.1.1

server_session.go

@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ func (s *ServerCommon) detachClientSessionTransport(client *ClientConn, reason s
 	if runtime := s.getBulkRuntime(); runtime != nil {
 		runtime.closeScope(serverFileScope(client), errTransportDetached)
 	}
+	s.closeServerDedicatedSidecar(logicalConnFromClient(client))
 	client.detachServerOwnedTransport()
 }
 
@@ -80,6 +81,7 @@ func (s *ServerCommon) detachLogicalSessionTransport(logical *LogicalConn, reaso
 	if runtime := s.getBulkRuntime(); runtime != nil {
 		runtime.closeScope(serverFileScope(logical), errTransportDetached)
 	}
+	s.closeServerDedicatedSidecar(logical)
 	logical.detachServerOwnedTransport()
 }
 
@@ -108,6 +110,7 @@ func (s *ServerCommon) registerAcceptedLogical(logical *LogicalConn) *LogicalCon
 	}
 	logical.setServer(s)
 	logical.applyAttachmentProfile(s.maxReadTimeout, s.maxWriteTimeout, s.defaultMsgEn, s.defaultMsgDe, s.defaultFastStreamEncode, s.defaultFastBulkEncode, s.defaultFastPlainEncode, s.handshakeRsaKey, s.SecretKey)
+	logical.setModernPSKRuntime(s.defaultModernPSKRuntime)
 	logical.markHeartbeatNow()
 	return s.getPeerRegistry().registerLogical(logical)
 }